Thursday, October 26, 2006

So...

Hypothetical question/scenario here, give me your feedback.

A girl, who I'll call A, has been with her boyfriend, who I'll call H, for a while now. They seem really happy with one another, getting over their age gap, H sneaking into her home for some hanky panky and what-not now and then and again and again. Doing things that people in love do, you know?

So, anyway, A has a "good friend" who she's known for longer than she's known H. And as some of you might have already figured "The friend must be a guy." Yes, you're right. THE FRIEND is indeed a guy.

So, A and H, happy couple right? Wrong. Well, Right, but not totally, or something. Apparently H isn't happy that A is spending too much time with THE FRIEND or something along those lines.

Now, some of you might think "Wait a minute, he's bloody insecure and/or possessive!" but then you're probably a girl. Most guys would think that H has got a point. How'd you feel if your girl was hanging out with another guy alot, going out with him ("But we just go out to eat and stuff!"), taking a ride with him (car ride), etc. Just A and THE FRIEND, one on one.

Personally, I think that there are very few cases where a guy and girl can be totally, 100% platonic. In most cases, it's because the guy is already attached to someone he rates higher than the girl. That might sound crass and really crude, but hey, alot would agree (no offense to all my female friends though...).

It's natural for a guy to try and woo a girl. Look at the animal world. Males try to bang as many females as they can in as little time as possible. Females tend to sift through the crowd, looking for what's in their best interest. It's fact. Sad, but true.

Now, translate that to what's happening between A, H and THE FRIEND, and what do you get?

Yeah. A pretty f*cked up situation where the girl is all "don't worry, nothing's going to happen" and the guy is like "but I don't want you to see him alone anymore, I think he likes you" and THE FRIEND is probably like "holy shit, I think she likes me."

Feedback.

2 comments:

Jeryd said...

totally man.. there's no such things as platonic guy-ger frenship... it's either right ger, right guy but wrong time.. im feeling it bro~

Anonymous said...

I AGREE. You didn't have to say time and time again right. A's just that type of girl...